Emm being extra…and extraordinarily normal? What does that even mean?!

Well, for starters I am Emm and I have been told that I am extra. I think that was meant to be something negative, but it’s a trait that I am happy to exhibit.

I am extraordinarily normal. But also kind of extra. I’m extra in so many ways. I even spell Emm with an extra ‘m’.

I am extra passionate about my people and the things I love; my beliefs and my opinions. I laugh a lot. I find myself to be hilarious and will always crack myself up. Always. Even at very inappropriate times.

I am also extra skeptical and somewhat pessimistic. I am fiercely protective. Trust me when I say this, I am the FBI. Give me a name and I will more than likely find and produce a full profile of a person. Seriously, ask my friends.

My reactions to things have been called over the top, but I believe they’re entirely appropriate. Apparently I am dramatic. But, just wait until you hear some of the stories I have to share.

I have been told I am too much. I am not completely sure what that means, but I am pretty confident if you think that, then you’re not enough for me.

I decided to launch my blog after years of contemplating it; of suggestions from friends, family and even my therapist. Yes. Let’s get that out of the way right now. I have a therapist. I love her. She is the best friend I pay for and everyone should have one. I will talk about her a lot. If everyone had a therapist then maybe the world wouldn’t be the way it is today. I would love to end the stigma of having a therapist. Seriously do yourself a favor and get one. Finding a therapist is like dating, you have to find the right one.

We are in a world where we are constantly scanning social media, maybe even seeking similar stories of situations to help us mull over decisions or validate how we are feeling. I felt the push to start sharing part of my story and anecdotal thoughts with you. I love telling stories. If you ever want to feel relatable to someone, share a story. There is so much you can gain or learn from hearing someone’s story no matter if you think your story is insignificant. You may never know who it may help.

So, I will give you fair warning. If you are at all a part of my circle in any way, I may write about a story that you’re a part of. In fact, I will probably write about you. I promise I won’t share names unless I ask you first. I may nickname you though…I do have a tendency to do that…

I will cover a whole gamut of topics, but I do ask that you keep a few things in mind:

1. This is my blog. I will write what I chose to write about.
2. If you want to unfollow me, do so. I don’t need an announcement of your departure.
3. I will not tolerate hate of any kind.
4. I will talk about hard subjects, because sometimes the proverbial elephant in the room needs to be addressed.

Also. I am a total amateur at this. So just be kind. This is a no judgement zone, that is unless I am doing the judging. Then call me Judge Judy.

Kidding…sort of.

So, Emm Being Extra is my way of sharing all my extra-ness with you. Follow along for some laughs, some unsolicited advice and some extra-ordinary normalcy. Or don’t…that’s your choice!

XO
Emm